emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.

this is important because so many people don’t know this


how dumb is it that we’ve created words we arent supposed to use

And if it were completely socially acceptable to use those words in any situation, we would just create new, different words we aren’t supposed to use.
We need words we’re not supposed to use so that we feel we are allowed to break boundaries when events are intense, even if those boundaries are ones we ourselves have made.


i just don’t understand how misogyny is even a thing i mean a woman carried you around for 9 months and pushed you out of her body and you think she’s weak and inferior to you

neongummibussani said:

*a hug that disguises the hidden motive of stealing you away from there*

thanks, sam xx

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I just wanna curl up in a ball and sleep for a long time. I feel tense, and overwhelmed, and incredibly sad and angry about the situation I’m in. I’m so tense in this house, and he is to blame, and I hate that I have no choice in how I live my life, even though I’m legally an adult. He decides everything I do, and yells at me and my sister and treats us poorly. I want out, I need out. I’ve even been told a dozen times, this is not a good place for me. But I lack the money to leave, and I am trapped here, living a life that I absolutely hate.

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